This necklace is for your two kids and spouse, plus one birthstone for mom. What we generally do is add the birthstone of the recipient but not her name. Sparkling birthstones (choose birth month and add names in slots provided after adding to cart) -- sent on a 32" or 36" chain which can be shortened. We never leave home without ours! To add the dog, grandma, or another loved one, add another tag at $15 with birthstone. Choose clear birthstone at your option.